How to Change a Diaper: The Complete Guide for Beginners and Experts

Changing diapers is one of the most common tasks for new parents and caregivers. While it may seem simple, there are some tips and tricks to diapering that can make the process faster, easier, and more comfortable for both baby and parent. This comprehensive guide covers everything you need to know about how to change a diaper for newborns, infants, and toddlers.

Key Takeaways on Changing Diapers:

  • Prepare in advance by having all necessary diapering supplies and equipment within reach.
  • Ensure baby’s comfort and safety by placing them on a flat, secure surface when changing.
  • Always keep one hand on the baby during the diaper change.
  • Clean the diaper area thoroughly with wipes from front to back to prevent infections.
  • Allow the area to air dry before applying cream or a new diaper.
  • Secure the new diaper snugly but not too tight and check for leaks.
  • Dispose of used diapers properly and wash hands thoroughly afterwards.
  • Change diapers frequently, at least every 2-3 hours, to avoid rashes and keep baby comfortable.
  • Make diaper changes a soothing experience by maintaining eye contact, singing, and talking to baby.

Why Is Changing Diapers Important?

Changing wet and soiled diapers frequently is important for a baby’s health, comfort, and development. Sitting in a wet or dirty diaper can irritate a baby’s sensitive skin and cause painful diaper rash. Urine and stool also contain bacteria that can lead to infection if left on the skin. Left unchanged, wet and soiled diapers can even cause some babies to develop urinary tract infections.

Frequent diaper changes maintain skin integrity to avoid rashes, infection risk, and discomfort. Babies feel more relaxed and content when clean and dry. A fresh diaper also reduces odors and leaks in clothing or bedding.

Good diapering hygiene early on helps establish healthy lifelong habits as well. Diaper changing is also an opportunity to bond one-on-one with baby through eye contact, singing, talking, and gentle touches.

How Often Should You Change a Diaper?

For optimal comfort and health, most babies need a diaper change:

  • Every 2-3 hours or more frequently if bowel movements present
  • As soon as they wake up from a nap
  • Immediately if the diaper is wet or soiled

Newborns may need up to 12 diaper changes per day. Frequency decreases as babies get older and void less often. Watch for cues that signal a soiled diaper like fussing, squirming, or pulling at clothes. Routinely check under the diaper as well.

It is not recommended to leave babies in one diaper overnight. Change before bed and when waking. Some parents use overnight diapers that absorb more but still change once nightly.

Diapering Safety Tips

  • Never leave a baby unattended on a changing surface. Keep one hand on baby at all times.
  • Choose a flat, stable surface at a comfortable height. A changing table or changing pad on the floor works.
  • Use contoured changing pads with safety straps to secure baby during changes.
  • Store supplies within arm’s reach to prevent having to walk away.
  • Avoid getting creams, powders, or oils near baby’s genitals which can irritate.
  • When using wipes, only take out one at a time and reseal packages to prevent drying.

Preparing For a Diaper Change

Planning ahead helps make diaper changing faster and allows you to engage with baby without interruptions:

Gather all necessary supplies:

  • Clean diaper
  • Wipes (warm wipes can help reduce fussing)
  • Diaper cream if needed
  • Plastic bags for soiled clothing or dirty diapers
  • Changing pad cover if reusable
  • Extra clothes in case of accidents

Set up a safe, comfortable changing station:

  • Clear off flat surface at an easy to access height
  • Use a clean changing pad, towel, or mat large enough for baby to lie on
  • Place supplies within arm’s reach but out of baby’s grasp
  • Adjust room temperature if needed so baby stays comfortable
  • Play soothing music or a sound machine to relax baby

Wash hands thoroughly with soap and water.

Undress baby or access diaper under clothes.

Let baby comfortably move and kick freely during the change without clothes in the way.

How to Change a Newborn Baby’s Diaper

Newborns require some special care during diaper changes. Their delicate, sensitive skin needs gentleness and their umbilical cord stump ongoing monitoring.

Carefully undress baby and place on back on a flat surface.

Keep one hand on baby at all times if not using safety straps to prevent falling.

Unfasten the soiled diaper but leave it under baby.

Lifting baby’s bottom to remove a soiled diaper can cause urine or stool to leak onto the changing surface.

Use fresh wipes to gently clean the diaper area from front to back.

  • For girls, wipe from vagina towards anus in one motion using a fresh wipe each time.
  • For boys, wipe base of penis then scrotum moving towards anus.

Allow area to fully air dry before applying cream or new diaper.

Check for umbilical cord stump:

  • If still attached, wipe stump and base gently with warm water or alcohol wipe daily.
  • Avoid pulling cord when cleaning and opening diaper. Report any inflammation, odor, or discharge to pediatrician.
  • Once cord stump falls off, treat area like normal skin.

Fasten new diaper snugly under baby’s belly button.

Newborns have very small waistlines so diapers fit higher on the abdomen. Take care not to rub or create friction on the healing umbilical area.

Dress baby again or swaddle snugly per preferences.

Hold, rock, feed, or interact with baby to provide comfort after the change.

How to Change a Baby Girl’s Diaper

Changing a baby girl’s diaper properly prevents infections and utis. Follow these tips:

Gently clean from front to back in one motion with each fresh wipe.

Wipe the outer vaginal area moving towards the anus. Never back to front.

Lift legs gently and clean between creases and folds in girl’s genital area.

Pay special attention to thoroughly clean anus area to avoid contact with vagina.

Allow area to air dry fully before applying cream or new diaper.

Change wet and soiled diapers promptly.

Moisture creates an environment for bacteria growth and infection in girls’ vulva and urethra.

Secure new diaper loosely around legs and waist.

Avoid rubbing or chafing the genital area. Give room for airflow.

How to Change a Baby Boy’s Diaper

Changing baby boys does come with some unique steps as well:

Clean penis then scrotum before wiping anus.

Gently grasp penis and point down towards legs to access and fully clean.

Wipe base and shaft of penis first with fresh wipe.

Then lift scrotum to wipe testicles and creases around genitals.

Finish by wiping front to back from scrotum to anus.

Never reverse direction back to genitals once anus is cleaned.

Allow room in diaper for penis to point downwards for leaks.

Aim penis towards baby’s feet before securing each side of diaper.

Check diaper leg holes aren’t too tight around genitals.

Tight elastic can cause discomfort. Make sure there is airflow.

How to Change an Infant Diaper (4 Weeks to 1 Year)

As babies reach 4-6 weeks, they become more alert, mobile, and might begin resisting diaper changes. These tips help make changing an infant’s diaper go smoothly:

Place toys or books within reach for distraction and comfort.

Engage their attention before undressing or opening diaper.

Use one arm to gently hold legs up while using hand to lift bottom.

Keeping one hand on infant at all times prevents falling and gives sense of security.

Expect messes! Have multiple wipes and towels ready.

Infants explore their bodies and love to reach, kick, and grab during changes.

Go from front wipe to back wipe then bottom wipe as separate steps.

Thoroughly clean each region before moving to next to avoid spreading bacteria.

Apply diaper cream sparingly only to reddened or irritated areas.

Lift baby’s bottom up with hand under diaper to remove and replace.

Securing clean diaper beneath baby prevents drips on changing surface.

Dispose of used diapers out of baby’s sight and reach immediately.

Infants learn quickly and will grasp used diapers if able to.

How to Change a Toddler’s Diaper (1 to 3 Years Old)

Toddlers on the move present unique challenges for diapering but these tips help the process go smoother:

Allow toddler stand facing you or lie down for diaper change.

Standing change is often easiest but have toddler lie down if resistant.

Praise, sing, or distract toddler when changing position.

Let toddler hold a favorite toy or object during the change.

Giving them a “job” helps avoid squirming or trying to get away.

Go fast but gently – toddlers are impatient!

Expect protests; respond calmly and acknowledge feelings.

Say “I know you want to keep playing, we’ll be all done soon” then redirect.

Apply firm but gentle pressure to avoid messes.

Toddlers are stronger and might kick or grab. Keep wipes and supplies out of reach.

Let toddler “help” with easy tasks like bringing a clean diaper.

Watch carefully as you secure clean diaper and redress toddler.

Toddlers are nimble escape artists and can dart away half redressed.

Best Practices For a Smooth, Mess-Free Diaper Change

  • Undress baby and remove soiled diaper leaving it underneath to contain messes.
  • Always wipe front to back and use a fresh wipe each time for girls and boys.
  • Clean all creases, folds, and genital area thoroughly. For boys, point penis down.
  • Let air dry fully before applying cream or new diaper to prevent infection.
  • Use contoured changing pads with safety straps for added security. Keep one hand on baby.
  • Secure clean diaper gently but snugly around waist and legs checking for leaks..
  • Dispose of used wipes and diapers promptly and properly. Close and remove from area.
  • Wash hands thoroughly with soap and water when finished.
  • Avoid loose powders or using wet wipes as these can cause genital irritation.
  • Change diapers every 2-3 hours at minimum for comfort, health and leak prevention.

What Diapering Supplies Do You Need?

Having all the right gear organized and within reach makes diaper changing faster and less stressful. Stock up on these essentials:


  • Have at least 3 days worth ready supply in newborn and infant sizes
  • Stock up on bigger sizes as baby grows
  • Choose disposable or cloth variety based on preferences
  • Overnight diapers help extend time between changes


  • Fragrance-free, hypoallergenic gentle for newborns
  • Refill packages are more economical
  • Stock warm water wipes to help soothe baby during changes

Diaper Cream

  • Fragrance-free, zinc oxide based creams are ideal
  • Have on hand for treating rashes
  • Only apply to reddened, irritated areas at each change

Changing Pad

  • Contoured pad with safety straps keeps baby secure
  • Waterproof material is easy to wipe clean from messes
  • Portable pads make changing on-the-go convenient

Changing Station

  • Dresser top, changing table, or pad on floor all work
  • Nearby supplies caddy keeps necessities within reach

Diaper Pail

  • Hands-free, foot pedal opens to toss used diapers
  • Locks in odors to keep nursery smelling fresh
  • Reusable cloth diaper pail with liner

Diaper Bag

  • Packed and ready to go makes leaving home easier
  • Specially designed bags hold tons of supplies

Diapering Tips to Prevent Diaper Rash

Diaper rash is red, irritated skin in the diaper area often caused by wetness, friction, chemicals, or bacteria. Prevent rashes with these tips:

  • Change wet and soiled diapers as soon as possible, every 2-3 hours minimum.
  • Gently cleanse skin and allow diaper area to fully air dry with no moisture before re-diapering.
  • Use super absorbent diapers that pull wetness from skin.
  • Let baby go diaper-free for short supervised play times.
  • Avoid diaper wipes with alcohol, fragrance or harsh cleansers.
  • Only use diaper creams on already irritated skin as a barrier.
  • Loosen diaper and allow airflow at night.
  • Take diaper off immediately after a bowel movement.
  • Change overnight diapers once during the night.
  • Use cloth diapers with stay-dry liners that pull moisture away.
  • If rash appears, expose area to air and call pediatrician for treatment options.

How to Make Diaper Changes More Enjoyable

Changing diapers is often a rushed, stressful chore. But it can also provide sweet one-on-one bonding time with your baby. Try these tips to create positive experiences:

  • Maintain eye contact and smile to help baby stay calm and comforted.
  • Talk, sing, or coo to baby in soothing tones throughout the change.
  • Let baby suck on a pacifier or bottle for distraction and security.
  • Incorporate leg exercises and gentle baby massage into the change.
  • Allow older babies to hold a safe toy or object during the change.
  • Keep room warm and comfortable and avoid cold wipes on skin.
  • Always be gentle – go slowly, watch leg movements, and keep one hand on baby.
  • Celebrate when finished! Clap, kiss baby, or cheer “Yay, all dry and clean now!”
  • Offer comfort like snuggling, rocking, or a soft toy after.
  • Change baby’s clothes too if spit up or leaks occur so they feel fresh.
  • Turn changes into a game like “This Little Piggy” using baby’s toes.
  • Let baby kick freely and move during the change without clothes in the way.
  • Maintain a calm, relaxed tone even if baby fusses. Your energy sets the mood.

Diapering FAQs:

Should you use powders, creams or oils during diaper changes?

Use creams sparingly and only on already reddened skin as a protective barrier. Oils are not recommended as they coat skin and can prevent moisture-wicking diapers from working. Avoid powders completely in infant diaper areas as the particles can be inhaled and cause breathing issues if they become airborne.

How do you dispose of dirty diapers?

Dirty disposable diapers belong in a diaper pail with a tight fitting lid, out of baby’s reach. Take the closed pail out regularly to an outdoor garbage can. Cloth diapers should be stored in a wet bag then washed. Never flush dirty diapers or wipes as they damage plumbing.

How do you clean up diaper blowouts?

Use gentle soap and warm water to wipe skin clean, change diaper, then put baby in clean clothes. For blowouts on sheets or clothing, rinse off solids then wash in hot water with bleach. Scrub mattresses with soap, rinse, then spray with disinfectant.

When should you start using diaper cream?

Only use thick barrier creams if baby’s skin is already reddened, irritated or broken down. For prevention, instead allow plenty of diaper-free time and use super absorbent, moisture-wicking diapers to keep skin dry. Talk to your pediatrician before starting routine use of diaper creams.

How do you relieve diaper rash pain and discomfort?

For mild redness, give diaper free time to air out. Try an ointment with zinc oxide or petroleum jelly to protect skin. For more severe rash with blistering or oozing, contact your pediatrician for antifungal or antibiotic cream. Relieving pain might require temporarily using over-the-counter pain gel or analgesic cream prescribed by your pediatrician.


Learning how to change a diaper properly takes practice but pays off by keeping baby clean, dry, and comfortable while avoiding common skin irritations. Establishing a soothing, positive routine makes changes faster and creates opportunities to connect one-on-one with your baby. With the right setup, safety measures, and techniques, diaper changing can become an easy, efficient part of infant care and parenting.

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